The 7 Stages of Puppy Development
In order to understand why your puppy doesn't listen to you
at times, you  need to understand each stage of development
a puppy goes through as it  matures.
Let's take a look at the different stages, but before we
do,  keep in mind that these stages are generalizations 
each dog will progress  at its own pace.
Stage 1: The Transitional Stage 2-3 Weeks
The  Transitional stage generally lasts from age two to
three weeks, and it's  during this time that your puppy's
eyes will open, and he'll slowly start to  respond to light
and movement and sounds around him. He'll become a  little
more mobile during this period, trying to get his feet
underneath  him and crawling around in the box (or wherever
home is.) He'll start to  recognize mom and his littermates,
and any objects you might place in the  box.
Stage 2: The Almost Ready To Meet The World Stage 3-4  Weeks
The Almost ready to meet the world stage lasts from 3 to
about 4  weeks, and your puppy undergoes rapid sensory
development during this time.  Fully alert to his
environment, he'll begin to recognize you and other  family
members. It's best to avoid loud noises or sudden changes
during  this period  negative events can have a serious
impact on his personality  and development right now.
Puppies learn how to be a dog during this time, so  it's
essential that they stay with mom and littermates.
Stage 3: The  Overlap Stage 4-7 Weeks
>From 3-4 weeks your puppy begins the most  critical social
development period of his life  he learns  social
interaction with his littermates, learns how to play and
learns  bite inhibition. He'll also learn discipline at this
point  Mom will begin  weaning the pups around this time,
and will start teaching them basic  manners, including
accepting her as the leader of the pack. You can begin  to
introduce food to the pups starting around the 4th week 
transition  gradually as Mom weans them.
Continue handling the pups daily, but don't  separate them
from either Mom or litter mates for more than about  10
minutes per day. Puppies that are removed from the nest too
early  frequently are nervous, more prone to barking and
biting and have a more  difficult time with socialization
and training. Puppies need to be left with  Mom and siblings
until at least 7 weeks of age - and preferably a  little
longer - for optimum social development. Experts say that
the best  time in a puppy's life to learn social skills is
between 3 and 16 weeks of  age  that's the window of
opportunity you have to make sure your puppy grows  up to be
a well-adjusted dog. It's extremely important to leave your
puppy  with Mom and his littermates during as much of this
period as possible. Don't  discipline for play fighting,
housebreaking mistakes or mouthing  that's all  normal
behavior for a puppy at this stage.
Stage 4: The "I'm Afraid of  Everything" Stage 8 Weeks to 3
Months
The "I'm Afraid of Everything"  Stage lasts from about 8
weeks to 3 months, and is characterized by rapid  learning
as well as a "fearful period" that usually pops up at
around 8 to  10 weeks. Not all dogs experience this, but
most do, and they'll appear  terrified over things that they
took in stride before. This is not a good  time to engage in
harsh discipline (not that you ever should anyway!),  loud
voices or traumatic events.
At this time your puppy's bladder and  bowels are starting
to come under much better control, and he's capable  of
sleeping through the night. (At last, you can get some
rest!) You can  begin teaching simple commands like: come,
sit, stay, down, etc. Leash  training can begin. It's
important not to isolate your puppy from human  contact at
this time, as he'll continue to learn behaviors and  manners
that will affect him in later years.
Stage 5: The Juvenile  Stage 3 Months to 4 Months
The Juvenile stage typically lasts from 3 to 4  months of
age, and it's during this time your puppy is most like  a
toddler. He'll be a little more independent - he might
start ignoring  the commands he's only recently learned 
just like a child does when they're  trying to exert their
new-found independence. As in "I don't have to listen  to
you!" Firm and gentle reinforcement of commands and
training is what's  required here.
He might start biting you  play biting or even a  real
attempt to challenge your authority. A sharp "No!" or "No
bite!"  command, followed by several minutes of ignoring
him, should take care of  this problem.
Continue to play with him and handle him on a daily  basis,
but don't play games like tug of war or wrestling with him.
He may  perceive tug of war as a game of dominance 
especially if he wins. And  wrestling is another game that
can rapidly get out of hand. As your puppy's  strength
grows, he's going to want to play-fight to see who's
stronger   even if you win, the message your puppy receives
is that it's ok to fight  with you. And that's not ok!
Stage 6: The Brat Stage 4-6  Months
The Brat Stage starts at about 4 months and runs until
about 6  months, and it's during this time your puppy will
demonstrate even more  independence and willfulness. You may
see a decline in his urge to please you   expect to see
more "testing the limits" type of behaviors. He'll be  going
through a teething cycle during this time, and will also be
looking  for things to chew on to relieve the pain and
pressure. Frozen doggie bones  can help sooth him during
this period.
He may try to assert his new  "dominance" over other family
members, especially children. Continue his  training in
obedience and basic commands, but make sure to never let
him  off his leash during this time unless you're in a
confined area. Many times  pups at this age will ignore
commands to return or come to their owners,  which can be a
dangerous, even fatal, breakdown in your dog's response  to
you. If you turn him loose in a public place, and he bolts,
the chances  of injury or even death can result  so don't
take the chance.
He'll  now begin to go through the hormonal changes brought
about by his growing  sexual maturity, and you may see signs
of rebelliousness. (Think adolescent  teen-age boy!) If you
haven't already, you should have him neutered during  this
time. (Or spayed if you have a female.)
Stage 7: The Young Adult  Stage 6-18 Months
The Young Adulthood stage lasts from 6 months to about  18
months, and is usually a great time in your dog's life -
he's young,  he's exuberant, he's full of beans  and yet
he's learning all the things he  needs to become a
full-fledged adult dog.
Be realistic in your  expectations of your dog at this time
 just because he's approaching his  full growth and may
look like an adult, he's not as seasoned and experienced  as
you might expect. Gradually increase the scope of
activities for your  dog, as well as the training. You can
start more advanced training during  this period, such as
herding or agility training, if that's something both  of
you are interested in. Otherwise, extend his activities to
include more  people and other animals  allow him to
interact with non-threatening or  non-aggressive dogs.
Congratulations! You've raised your puppy through  the 7
stages of childhood, er, I mean puppyhood, and now you have
a  grown-up, adult dog! Almost feels like you've raised a
kid, doesn't  it?
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